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WHAT'S THE OCCASION?

Dating ideas by event type, or mood

 

~ Quotes by women writers ~

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CASUAL

Carefree

I simply do not distinguish between work and play.

~ Mary Oliver

 

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MOVIE MARATHON

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Dress down (PJs, anyone?) and select a few movies to watch with your besties.

Take turns watching everyone's favorite. 

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HEAD TO A MUSEUM

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Look up various museum options around you (even consider ones

requiring a day's road trip) and get a load of culture.

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GAME NIGHT

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Gather a few favorite games for a fun night in. 

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BREWERY TOUR OR WINE TASTING

Take a peek into the makings of some of your favorite adult beverages. 

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GO TO A LOCAL EVENT

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Whether it be a high school football game, community theater play, 

fundraiser event, or open mic night, support your neighbors and neighborhood

by showing up to one of their scheduled events.

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ROMANCE

Dating

We are each other's magnitude and bond.

~ Gwendolyn Brooks

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ALT. HONEY-DO LIST 

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Make individual lists of your favorite activities and take turns

completing each one with your partner. 


GET CREATIVE 

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Take an art class (pottery, painting, sculpting, etc.) and create pieces for one another.

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COUPLES MASSAGE

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Relax with your sweetheart while someone else does the hard work.

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GO SHOPPING

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Not your typical shopping spree...head out to select something for the other!

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GO TO THE THEATRE

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Skip television for the evening to enjoy live entertainment.

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VISIT A GREENHOUSE OR BOTANICAL GARDEN

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Flowers are nature's aphrodisiac. 

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GO OUT (OR STAY IN) FOR BREAKFAST


Make a point to wake up early to go out for breakfast

(or make it at home) to help kick-start your day.

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CHOCOLATE OR CHEESE FONDUE


Melt chocolates or cheeses and have various dips to go along.

Pair with a fine wine (optional).

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RELAX

Zen

I took a deep breath and listened to the old bray of my heart. I am. I am. I am.

~ Sylvia Plath

 

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TAKE A YOGA CLASS

 

With so many options for yoga these days, there is hardly an excuse not to try!

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GET A MANI / PEDI

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Indulge in some [colorful] self care.

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TAKE A WALK

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It all starts with breathing in and out; one foot in front of the other.

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HIRE A MAID

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Sit back and enjoy the cleanliness you didn't have to sweat over.

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SPICE UP

Girl and Guy

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The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn.

~ Gloria Steinem

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DESTINATION SATURDAY (or Sunday)

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Select a destination 1+ hours away to check out on your day off.

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ATTEND A BURLESQUE SHOW

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A unique variety show you'll remember not to forget.

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EXPERIENCE DRAG

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Check out when and where local drag shows are hosted in your area. (Go, girl!)

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SING KARAOKE

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Practice your favorite song in the shower. Then test your skills in public, just for fun.

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TAKE A COOKING CLASS

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Skip grocery shopping and enjoy themed cooking in someone else's kitchen.

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[FIND &] GO TO A POP-UP RESTAURANT

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This one may take some research and pre-planning, but you'll enjoy

 a more rare and unique experience when dining at a hidden gem.

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CELEBRATE

Fiesta!

Find ecstasy in life; the mere sense of living is joy enough.

~ Emily Dickinson

 

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DRINKS @ A SPEAKEASY

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Instead of  going out to dinner, spend a little extra on drinks for the night.

There are so many cool places to enjoy a fabulous cocktail.

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ORGANIZE A POTLUCK

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If hosting a large group for a special occasion, ask everyone bring a dish

so all can enjoy each other's company to the fullest.

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HIRE A PHOTOGRAPHER

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No matter the event, have a photographer document the celebration.

Frame your favorites, or gift them.

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HOST A PICNIC

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Gather at a nearby park where you can serve food and play outdoor games, 

maybe even set up a bonfire (if permitted). For less stress and mess,

consider having the event catered.

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RENT A BOAT, OR LIMO

 

Let someone else do the driving while you enjoy light snacks and drinks, on water or land.

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ADVENTURE

Scooter

Expect nothing. Live frugally on surprise.

~ Alice Walker

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GO GLAMPING

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A twist to camping without even needing to supply your own sleeping bag!

Options include: glamorous tents, huts,  teepees, yurts, trailers, and more.

 

HOT AIR BALLOON RIDE

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Enjoy city and/or country views (if you can get over your fear of heights).  

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TANDEM BIKE RIDING

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For a different, more collaborative, type of bike riding.

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TAKE A ROAD TRIP 

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There are so many unique sights you can stop to see on your way

to a destination 4, 5, 6 hours away (requiring not much more than a weekend).

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EXPERIENCE A THEME PARK

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Roller coasters, ferris wheels, and water slides are never too far away.

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ACTIVE

Surfing

It is in vain to say human beings ought to be satisfied with tranquillity: they must have action; and they will make it if they cannot find it.

~ Charlotte Brontë

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WORK OUT 

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Mix up your activities at the gym. If staying home, watch a work out video.

Consider an accountability buddy.

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TAKE A NEW FITNESS CLASS 

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Make a point to try a new fitness regime. Attend a few times to get more out of it.

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CLIMB A ROCK WALL

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Bring a partner you trust and test your belay skills and climbing ability.

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GO DANCING / TAKE DANCE LESSONS

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Choose a style and get to boogey-ing! Wear good shoes. 
 

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OUTDOOR

Scenic Mountain Biking

In the spring, at the end of the day, you should smell like dirt. 

~ Margaret Atwood

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TAKE A HIKE

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Be sure to wear comfortable shoes and bring a backpack

with enough water and food to last.

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LACE UP THE SKATES

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There's a set of skates for just about any weather.

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RIDE A BIKE 

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Go for a joy ride.

You can hit up a variety of trails depending on your set of wheels.

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CANOE, KAYAK OR PADDLEBOARD


Try out a favored vessel on water. You can rent equipment

or join a tour group that includes rental gear.

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GO STARGAZING

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You'll need to get away for the city for this one, but you'll be glad to see

sights that are quite literally out of this world.

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FIND A CAMPGROUND

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Even if you do not own your own camping gear, you can rent it.

(Check your local outdoor supply store, or browse options online.)

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