WHAT'S THE OCCASION?
Dating ideas by event type, or mood
~ Quotes by women writers ~
CASUAL
I simply do not distinguish between work and play.
~ Mary Oliver
MOVIE MARATHON
Dress down (PJs, anyone?) and select a few movies to watch with your besties.
Take turns watching everyone's favorite.
HEAD TO A MUSEUM
Look up various museum options around you (even consider ones
requiring a day's road trip) and get a load of culture.
GAME NIGHT
Gather a few favorite games for a fun night in.
BREWERY TOUR OR WINE TASTING
Take a peek into the makings of some of your favorite adult beverages.
GO TO A LOCAL EVENT
Whether it be a high school football game, community theater play,
fundraiser event, or open mic night, support your neighbors and neighborhood
by showing up to one of their scheduled events.
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ROMANCE
We are each other's magnitude and bond.
~ Gwendolyn Brooks
ALT. HONEY-DO LIST
Make individual lists of your favorite activities and take turns
completing each one with your partner.
GET CREATIVE
Take an art class (pottery, painting, sculpting, etc.) and create pieces for one another.
COUPLES MASSAGE
Relax with your sweetheart while someone else does the hard work.
GO SHOPPING
Not your typical shopping spree...head out to select something for the other!
GO TO THE THEATRE
Skip television for the evening to enjoy live entertainment.
VISIT A GREENHOUSE OR BOTANICAL GARDEN
Flowers are nature's aphrodisiac.
GO OUT (OR STAY IN) FOR BREAKFAST
Make a point to wake up early to go out for breakfast
(or make it at home) to help kick-start your day.
CHOCOLATE OR CHEESE FONDUE
Melt chocolates or cheeses and have various dips to go along.
Pair with a fine wine (optional).
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RELAX
I took a deep breath and listened to the old bray of my heart. I am. I am. I am.
~ Sylvia Plath
TAKE A YOGA CLASS
With so many options for yoga these days, there is hardly an excuse not to try!
GET A MANI / PEDI
Indulge in some [colorful] self care.
TAKE A WALK
It all starts with breathing in and out; one foot in front of the other.
HIRE A MAID
Sit back and enjoy the cleanliness you didn't have to sweat over.
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SPICE UP
The first problem for all of us, men and women, is not to learn, but to unlearn.
~ Gloria Steinem
DESTINATION SATURDAY (or Sunday)
Select a destination 1+ hours away to check out on your day off.
ATTEND A BURLESQUE SHOW
A unique variety show you'll remember not to forget.
EXPERIENCE DRAG
Check out when and where local drag shows are hosted in your area. (Go, girl!)
SING KARAOKE
Practice your favorite song in the shower. Then test your skills in public, just for fun.
TAKE A COOKING CLASS
Skip grocery shopping and enjoy themed cooking in someone else's kitchen.
[FIND &] GO TO A POP-UP RESTAURANT
This one may take some research and pre-planning, but you'll enjoy
a more rare and unique experience when dining at a hidden gem.
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CELEBRATE
Find ecstasy in life; the mere sense of living is joy enough.
~ Emily Dickinson
DRINKS @ A SPEAKEASY
Instead of going out to dinner, spend a little extra on drinks for the night.
There are so many cool places to enjoy a fabulous cocktail.
ORGANIZE A POTLUCK
If hosting a large group for a special occasion, ask everyone bring a dish
so all can enjoy each other's company to the fullest.
HIRE A PHOTOGRAPHER
No matter the event, have a photographer document the celebration.
Frame your favorites, or gift them.
HOST A PICNIC
Gather at a nearby park where you can serve food and play outdoor games,
maybe even set up a bonfire (if permitted). For less stress and mess,
consider having the event catered.
RENT A BOAT, OR LIMO
Let someone else do the driving while you enjoy light snacks and drinks, on water or land.
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ADVENTURE
Expect nothing. Live frugally on surprise.
~ Alice Walker
GO GLAMPING
A twist to camping without even needing to supply your own sleeping bag!
Options include: glamorous tents, huts, teepees, yurts, trailers, and more.
HOT AIR BALLOON RIDE
Enjoy city and/or country views (if you can get over your fear of heights).
TANDEM BIKE RIDING
For a different, more collaborative, type of bike riding.
TAKE A ROAD TRIP
There are so many unique sights you can stop to see on your way
to a destination 4, 5, 6 hours away (requiring not much more than a weekend).
EXPERIENCE A THEME PARK
Roller coasters, ferris wheels, and water slides are never too far away.
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ACTIVE
It is in vain to say human beings ought to be satisfied with tranquillity: they must have action; and they will make it if they cannot find it.
~ Charlotte Brontë
WORK OUT
Mix up your activities at the gym. If staying home, watch a work out video.
Consider an accountability buddy.
TAKE A NEW FITNESS CLASS
Make a point to try a new fitness regime. Attend a few times to get more out of it.
CLIMB A ROCK WALL
Bring a partner you trust and test your belay skills and climbing ability.
GO DANCING / TAKE DANCE LESSONS
Choose a style and get to boogey-ing! Wear good shoes.
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OUTDOOR
In the spring, at the end of the day, you should smell like dirt.
~ Margaret Atwood
TAKE A HIKE
Be sure to wear comfortable shoes and bring a backpack
with enough water and food to last.
LACE UP THE SKATES
There's a set of skates for just about any weather.
RIDE A BIKE
Go for a joy ride.
You can hit up a variety of trails depending on your set of wheels.
CANOE, KAYAK OR PADDLEBOARD
Try out a favored vessel on water. You can rent equipment
or join a tour group that includes rental gear.
GO STARGAZING
You'll need to get away for the city for this one, but you'll be glad to see
sights that are quite literally out of this world.
FIND A CAMPGROUND
Even if you do not own your own camping gear, you can rent it.
(Check your local outdoor supply store, or browse options online.)
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